Have you ever asked yourself why it is so difficult for you to just get started. To say yes to yourself and be happy about it?
Every day you surround yourself with countless people who seem to have happiness flying their way.
They have fun and allow themselves to step out of line without thinking about what others might think of them.
Whereas you may doubt yourself, lack confidence, or simply feel like others don't like you and therefore hold back.
Maybe sometimes you don't dare to say no because you're constantly trying to please everyone.
You increasingly have the feeling that your wishes and needs are constantly falling by the wayside.
This is bad because these situations can be really overwhelming.
How long do you want to go without what is important to you? It's about you!
In this blog article, I will show you how you can use 9 questions to overcome your fear, finally say yes to yourself and successfully pursue your dream business.
How to Overcome Your Fear with 9 Questions
To say YES to you!
Do you want to overcome your fear of saying yes to yourself?
Then answer the following questions for yourself:
- Are you one of those people who always want to please everyone?
- If so, why is that?
- What benefit does it have for you?
- What bad things could happen if you stop?
- Do you sometimes feel guilty when you do something you want to do?
- Where do you think it comes from and what is your conscience trying to tell you?
- Do your desires match your needs and values or are they just “substitute satisfactions”?
- What is important to you?
- What can you do differently from now on?
Once you have answered all the questions honestly, you will understand why it is so difficult to simply say yes to yourself.
Even if you could walk on water, someone would still come along and ask you if you were too stupid to swim (author unknown)
No matter what you do, there will always be someone who doesn't want you to have fun or be successful. Unfortunately, you will never be able to change that.
Most of the time it is those who cannot manage it themselves.
Therefore, do what you really want and what your heart beats for!
You will notice, even if it takes some courage at the beginning, that you can only emerge from these situations as a winner and develop further.
Bonus tip: Learn more about how Palmtherapy works through acupressure calming and thereby transform fear into relaxation. Learn how to acupressure inner restlessness you can fight!
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